Sweet sweet Aunt Dorothy, she made looking good seem effortless. A shining example of everything The Turner Family is known for…integrity, fairness, generosity, quiet strength and last, but not least…good humor.
So pretty too, movie star pretty…truly. The kind of beauty that turned heads, but never needed to. Even her hands, so soft and pretty…graceful and always doing something kind, good and precise. Writing a note, a greeting card, folding church bulletins, making that delicious baklava or placing each decoration on that amazingly spectacular Christmas Tree.
Another wonderful memory for me was that she always remembered my birthday, a trait I did not get, unfortunately. She took the time to pick the perfect card, make sure it arrived in my mailbox, right on time and in her, lacy, like flowers blooming cursive…it was always signed, “Much love, Aunt Dorothy. I just think that’s a beautiful way to sign a card. I’ve copied that and when I sign cards, I’m proud to warmly sign, “Much love, Melahn.”
Another sweet thing Aunt Dorothy did was hug and kiss us, in her own precious way. She would take my face, in her two, soft and pretty hands and look me right in the eyes and say, “love you” and give the sweetest little kiss, right on my lips. It was heart melting…truly.
She loved Jesus and served the church faithfully, not just in word, but in quiet steady action. One of my earliest memories was in the spare bedroom on Magnolia watching her print bulletins. I imagine just setting up and maintaining the printer was, in comparison to wireless printers of now, more laborious and as I remember took up a quite bit more space. I was a little kid so maybe seemed bigger than it was, regardless, I was pretty impressed by this weekly event at Aunt Dorothy’s house. I didn’t know about The Body of Christ then, but once I learned of it…immediately thought of Aunt Dorothy and those bulletins she printed. I realized she was contributing to The Body of Christ, and making it better, bulletin by bulletin.
Her home was like her, warm and gracious. I remember everyone loved being there.
Southern charm, loaded with it, and something that comes with that…a spine of steel, she could say “no” without you realizing it, but she could also say “no” in a manner so poised and resolute it made you know she meant “no” and not to forget it. Very admirable quality and I’m sure, in part why she was so well respected.
Aunt Dorothy is deeply missed, but she’ll never truly be gone. She has left us the gift of her beautiful bright light that’s resting gently on every heart she touched and that will never fade.
As much as I miss my dearest Daddy, I shall be forever grateful that the next time he sees his sweet Sister Dorothy will be in heaven with joyous laughter and much love!
🌹 Much love, Melahn…
She is clothed in strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
Proverbs 31:25-26